Just found out she already filed

[flowmom]

I think you're over-thinking, over-parsing, over analyzing.
Back off a bit. Let go.

I'm also in agreement!

You need to concentrate more on yourself HotRomeo. I know you think you are, but you're not. I remember when CityGirl used to post that to me over and over again. I appreciated her feedback but I was frustrated, thinking "what?? how am I supposed to do that??". As you know from reading my thread I've had to try new things and really work to not be constantly analyzing everything that H says and does.

Did I read that you'll be in mediation on Wednesday? Can you post what you're doing to prepare for that, emotionally?

hugs.