My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Thanks for the reassurance. Not sure what she's going to do now, but she left and I'm guessing she's off to see the OM and try to make a plan (again). I don't have any credit cards. The only thing I would need to do is open up a new bank account. We don't have much in our shared bank account.

I definitely set a boundary. I told her that she is hurting me and the kids and that I can't live like this. I also spilled the beans about infidelity in our state being punishable by up to three years imprisonment (not sure if I should have said that) and that I met with a lawyer on Friday to talk about a temporary separation order.

She said, "You know I don't love you." And I said, "I know, you've told me a million times. So now you need to do something about it."

She said that since we have kids together, we should work together and be friends. I said, "I can't do that - it hurts too much." I said, "Work out a plan for the kids, and I'll take a look at it."

WhatNow, the pastor has gone over all that with her and she somehow doesn't seem to care. She has always seemed to me to be a devout Christian, so I don't get it. Oh well. She keeps saying, "I tried for 11 years!" and other comments like that.