Have you thought of having him pick up the mail from your home on his own? I mean if you are that hideous to be around, it seems like he should be the one to get his own stuff when he feels like it. If he gets in trouble with the court it's his problem.
He's projecting big time and you are right not to engage him when he's int hose moods.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.