This is good stuff. Unlike connecting after they had an "normal" A (sorry, it's late and couldn't think of a more appropriate description - you all know what I mean) - where you start to rebuild right away, just remember to expect back and forth.
I see so many people that KNOW - as you do - the process, but still get sucked in. Don't be upset if you do, it just shows that you still have hope and that's the spark that will pave the way for YOU to find the love again. Hope is what it's all about... but remember the one step forward, two steps back dance will happen from time to time when you want it two forward and only one back.