I am so sorry H is being so hateful. I know you said you laughed, but it must have stunned you also. Please know it's entirely projection, as you said. Don't even let a little bit of his negativity affect you.
You're doing so well. Keep it up! Man, I have three teens living in my house, two are twins who fight CONSTANTLY - plus, their mom just moved half way down the US, and they feel that she abandoned them, and then suddenly, their dad moves out and an alien-teen moves in... imagine my grief. LOLOL. I hear you about "If our own kids had acted like that when they were teens, he would have wanted to smack them!"
Remember, He gives us what He knows we can handle... you ARE stronger than you think.
And I hear ya about the medications... LOL. I found an article that said that in the early stages of an A, you could give antidepressants and it would block the receptors so the infatuation chemicals would not take hold... take a guess how quickly I was trying to figure out how to get a hold of some of those meds? LOL. Couldn't figure out how to morally feed a man drugs that he didn't know he was getting, so crossed that off my list right quick... but it would have been nice. Now that I know he's in MLC, it would have been bad, probably prolonged it.
