I was thinking of doing a brief written paragraph. I think I could be more direct that way, and he could reread it if he so chose. I know in person would probably seem more...brave or something. But I'm not sure I can do it concisely and would be more confident on paper.

Thank you for all the things to think about as far as info being used against me. As far as the apology goes, I really want no response from him. I'm just giving him info as I feel I should as part of my "inner work" and change.

Thanks again


M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years