I`d be stuck with a M where I have no reasonable expectation of getting my needs met.
Looking at what you wrote about no expectations and your choice of a H who liked no expectations, I can only ask are your "needs" reasonable for this M to survive
You partially answered this question about your "needs" 180 for financial, I am asking if there are any other "needs" that you are not mentioning. Do you really have to have these "needs" met in your R? Or is this just wishful thinking?
