Yesterday W came home from work felling better than she had in the past 2 weeks. W had a rose. I asked while chuckling a little "what is that?" She said that a supervisor named "george" gave them to every woman at work today for mothers day" as she too laughed a little.

I said nothing more about it. In the past I would have lost it and asked "why would you just have rejected it" ect... I would had made it into the worst possible thing that could have happened...but I didn't because it seemed innocent enough.

W came out form kitchen and said "yeah he bought 3 dozen roses and was handing them out to everyone, well all the women." and I said "that's a cool gesture must had cost him some money too." W shrugged shoulders and went and got something to eat.

W and I said on same couch watching TV for a bit. I had gone up to bed and W soon followed, W feel to sleep. First time she was able to sleep in over a week. She slept all day. about 1130PM or so W woke up and watched a little TV with me, then went back to bed and so did I.

Had a brief chat with FIL on facebook. We talked about the condition and progress of his GF then talked about how my W was doing then he had to go ending the convo with "Love you guys"

Today:

W woke up early because she slept all day yesterday. I had to get up early myself and head to a hearing. W and I got along OK till I left. I said "bye" before leaving but W said nothing, she was half a sleep.

When i returned home W was still sleeping. So I grabbed laptop and sat in the kitchen. W woke up and came downstairs and asked where the dog was. We spent about 15 min. or so fooling with the dog. W went to living room to watch TV, I remained in kitchen. W calls out to me "I want one of these" I get up and walk over to hear and on her computer screen was a banana split. I laughed and asked "you want a banana split?" and she shook her head yes, then I said did you want me to go get you one? she shrugged her shoulders then shook her head yes. I did not get up immediately I sat there for a bit, then went and got ready to go. W then asked "where you going" and I replied "To the icecream, you still want a banana split right" she said yes then I asked "did you want to go with me and take the dog for a ride?" she thought about it and said "yeah" and so we went.

When we returned home, I sat in the kitchen again on the laptop and she was watching TV, I went up to bed to rest before work, W eventually came up and laid in bed and went on her laptop. W and I sat up looking at somethings together and I eventually had to leave for work. When I left I told wife bye and she gave me a little wave...
Today was not too bad but she is still very distant, withdrawn, and at times short.

It seems like W was emailing pictures to herself so she could put them on her phone. I was looking at her phone today (we were together at pictures) and I seen the pics she sent herself. There were others on there too.

W responds with "huh" "hmm" and "uh uh" a lot. W is not normally like that. My W is a well spoken woman and for her to respond with noises is not like her at all.

My concern has been lately that my W thinks that I am trying to co-exist myself and maybe she assumes I still have the knowledge that she is leaving.

If any WAW reading this, can you relate to the mentality my W has right now and do you see any good between our interactions that would suggest hope?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10