Perhaps a good 180 for me now would be to make space to feel my needs and commit to expressing them in healthy ways. To let people who are repelled by that fall away from my life. To make room for people who relish the give and take that makes a relationship rich. This is an area of potential growth for me. Maybe I even need to honour myself by expressing my needs to H directly, knowing that that will cement the end of my marriage to a man who cannot confront even his own needs. If I did that it would be for me. But maybe I can get the same result by writing a letter and not sending it.
Seven enthusiastic "Yes's" for seven very insightful sentences..
Originally Posted By: flowmom
`I take care of business with confidence and pride.`
Gardener likes this and is going to steal it!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
