Hey Good, I agree with Coach--you are doing the right things.
thanks lauraoh. i hope that everything i do leads to some kind of result. even if i don't save my m, i would at least like to have my best friend back.
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And I am one that heard the ILY after I got the ILYNILY.
i'm glad one of us got our h to change his mind.
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He has issues. He has had them a long, long time. He wants a mom--I am not his mother. I probably will refuse to EVER knit.lol.
sorry to hear that he's going to a lawyer to d. i am reading the book "getting back together" (forgot the authors) but they warn how you need to do a lot of work before you get back together.
did you get back together too quickly? if you don't truly address the issues, it will not last.
i don't want to go back to the old routine. i want a new marriage with my h. one where we both make changes to our communication style.
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Like coach said--it's blowing in the wind. Someone may appreciate it--maybe "someone" is H and maybe not.
ah. that's what he meant by that bob dylan song.
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You could win back your H and be right back here again later--you just don't know.
Do it for you. Make your life good for you.
trying to do this. i am aware that i could end up back here. but i am hoping that we work on our issues together. it's tougher because we don't have kids to keep us together. too many people have told me to just give up and move on. that he's no good - his true colours have come out. but i love him for who he is. i am going to append a post to this thread after this reply and explain a bit.
