I know what you mean about the OM's actions pissing you off. Remember my W's one tried to get me fired.
Did the church members say when they were planning to intervene? Personally I'm not sure if it's going to work but I remain optimistic. It might give your W that "Romeo and Juliet, secret love" rush. I mean if she was willing to twist around the word of God, who knows what she's thinking.
Good luck though.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.