LolaL,
It hurts. Let it go. It's the age.
I agree with VH, an fb message from D23 is just as good as a call in their tech/keyboard world.
And D25: Defensive+surly=guilt.
Vh is right. Let them feel their own guilt which they would have eventually.

Oh, and VH:
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
And she called me darling.... blush
. I got One "Dear," two "Luv"s and two lunch invitations, so back off (he said, sounding as high-schoolish as possible!). grin

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac