My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Thanks WhatNow and Sandi.
Sandi, I think the pastor once suggested that we all sit down and talk, but when I put the idea on this forum, the idea was discouraged so I didn't do it. The difference here would be that my wife and the OMW would not be present. We would basically be confronting just the OM head on.

I don't mind being the bad guy if that's what it takes, I'm just trying to know will help or hurt my case. I understand what you're saying about the problem being in the heart of my wife, but wouldn't it help if the OM makes a decision to leave her alone?

What can I do about my wife's heart? All I know so far is to try to be the better option, GAL, stop pursuing, and see about kicking her out. What am I missing?