My husband and I have been having many problems lately, and finally he said those dreaded words and meant it. I think we should separate...which in turn led to the other words...we need a divorce. I love him but parts of me hate him. I have no trust in our relationship so when he texts me he will be home late, I am automatically thinking he is with another woman. I have caught him talking to several different women and have found his profile on some different dating sites. This only reinforced my negative thinking. In turn I have been pretty rude to him. I have stopped wanting to sleep in his bed because I feel that if he is being intimate with another woman why do I want to be close to him. He now feels that I make it a chore to have sex. And I admit that I do feel those ways sometimes. We have a 6 year old. He recently moved our family to a new city in my last year of college, I could be done right now, but since I have to start at a new university I will be in school 3 extra semesters. I feel very used because he opened credit cards in my name without my permission for his old job, he was paying them but recently gave them back to me and told me he cant afford to pay them because he doesnt make enough money. All I can think about is him being with another woman instead of focusing on myself. It drives me crazy and I havent been eating or sleeping well. He says we need to be apart for awhile and figure ourselves out and in the end if we have a common bond we can be together. I am not sure if this feels hopeful or if I am wasting my energy.
Me30 H38 D6 Married for 7 years Relationship before marriage 3 years Husband is sending me on the biggest rollercoaster in the world.
