reconciliation after divorce?

[Abbey]

I almost get the impression that she's still looking to you for approval. This I don't quite get. She seeks your warm-fuzzies, tells you how crappy she's feeling, but then pulls a U-turn. Yeah... WTF, was what I said to myself when I was reading your latest posts.

AC, I'm afraid I'm not being much help here because I'm stuck in her present actions.

The only thing I can say was when mine wanted to split, he still wanted to hug me, see me once a week to go to a movie... at one meal where the OW was away for a week,... he wanted me to share his soup with 2 spoons. He never wanted me to do that for 17 years we were married prior. He asked me to meet him at a business venue... and he even tickled me. WTF?! was my in my brain too. There does seem to be something "else" going on with your W, as with my H. They know what they're heading for was wrong... but they can't seem to stop themselves.

Bad news is... ya gotta let them fall in the hole. It's the only way they'll realize that you're a good one to reach out to, when they want out.

Abbey