Sandi, I don't follow?

We met and she was very emotional and I held it together. I mostly asked her how she wanted to proceed. I told her that I was trying to live in reality and that was that of course she shouldn't be married to a guy that treats her poorly and I was upset that I had become someone who would do that. I told her that I was trying to become a better man and I have no control over how she feels, just how I act.

I told her I was codepndent in our R and that's not good. I don't want he to be either.

Not sure what happens now. The concert I mentioned earlier is tonight.