At this point I'm considering just going dark. I no longer have the panic, I'm eating again, getting out much more, visiting family & friends, heck I'm finally going to do my first open mic poetry reading soon (something I have wanted to do for years!!). My question is this: what is the best way to go dark? What has killed me is that I know my M can be saved, obviously I disagree with the D. I want this to be communicated as a rejection to her, but respectful and graceful. She is very much in the fog right now and persuing a self-fulfilled prophecy where I cannot change and can't do anything right. Thoughts on how to initiate going dark?
