While you are thinking that over, think about what you can control - you.
You can't control Gabe. You can't control where/what this develops into. Only what it doesn't.
You can put a stop to it at any time.
You can see where it goes til then. Keeping in mind you have control over you, your reactions, and your actions. Gabe may or may not be able to give you what you need. There's one way to find out - give it time and see what develops. Apply the DB principles to try and create a fulfilling R that may develop into something committed.
But you always get veto power.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2