Don't call and ask about your animals. That is just an excuse to talk to him. You know if one was sick or hurt, he'd call you.
You have to make decisions based on "What would I do if he was not in the world"? If he was not on this planet, you would have had to find another person to sit with the house/animals. If he was not here, you would not find reasons to call back home to "check in" and see how things are going.
It will cause him to think you're really having a great time and don't have your mind on him if you "don't" call him. Think about it! If you call.....that's pursuing. Make him wonder!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
