Hugs NM. I like the idea of not thinking, thinking, thinking & no second guessing. Of course you don't want to give up hope of H going through with the D - remember, if it happens, it's not necessarily the end. Don't want to give false hope there - it's just perhaps not the be all and end all. About asking your H, yes why not wait a bit? Till you are feeling a bit stronger. It's like I didn't confront H about OW still being there until I thought I could handle it without screaming. Great to read your therapists idea of signs to look out for if you are not connecting with your baby.. Well done you! because your S is doing fine! Thanks for reporting back on this session..there were lots of useful things in there for all of us.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
