Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

OK so STBX replied:


"I don't think there is any advantage over the monthly vs weekly payments for DD's school its just that for credit transactions they only accept it for monthly payments. That was the reason I did it that way.

DD will be on the wait list at the X school. I just had a tour today and am filling out the application. Once I get it back to them with a check to hold her spot (they cash it when the spot is available) then she will be on the list. Hopefully, I will finish today and can drop it off tomorrow morning. In the meantime, we should have at least 1-2 backup schools for her to attend in the chance she doesn't get a spot. I would recommend that we tour both schools and then you can decide. The X campus is amazing so I'd love for her to go there. If she has to go somewhere else until she gets a slot there, I'm ok with that too.

I can pay the ATT bill and I'm fine with an out of court settlement. Not really sure what that means but if its cheaper, sure.

What happened to X (SR: neighbor's dog)? DD said that he died??? Also she said something about X (SR: our cat) getting bigger and her face changed (SR: lol)? Are you guys eating the artichokes and strawberries yet (SR: from the garden she put in earlier this year)? I have the portable dvd player, her lunch bag and a couple other things to drop off maybe tomorrow if you don't mind.


So I'm not sure how I'll respond but a few things came to mind as I read it:

- she finally responded to my emails properly after 10 days
- she didn't start with 'hi' or end with 'thanks'
- she's being fair with DD's school selection etc...that's nice
- she says she's ok with an out of court settlement but then throws in the caveat that she doesn't know what it means and she's ok with it because it might be cheaper- not because it'll be more amicable. Still that's nice and a 'progress' in my book- even if it's progress towards D.
- why's she concerened about the dog, our cat, the garden all of which she left behind like me. why doesn't she care or ask ' how are you doing SR? lol
- she's needy for my response that's why she ended with a question about her wanting to drop off a couple of things it shows by her mentioning umimportant things and then saying maybe tomorrow. So she'd like to get a reply by tonight or tomorrow morning.
- I shouldn't respond to her soon...maybe not for a few days, maybe not for a week or two...maybe never. Only thing worth while responding to is DD's school sitch which is time sensitive.

Any advice from the wise?