hey hopeful, i seen you posted on my thread and i just wanted to check in with you. So she has a old friend who she really enjoys being with now and you have told her it is o.k as long as no sex, to which she agreed with, huh. Well I'll call BS on that.. If it hasn't become physical yet it will be shortly.
So, first off know that you are only in control of yourself. So take this time to learn about yourself, and become the man you always wanted to be. Walk away's don't understand logic, you have to reach them through emotions. You have come to the right place with 100's of others going through the same crap. Heal yourself, then move on with your life... meaning date, have fun, enjoy your life... This is your best chance to win her back.. if that is what you really want after you see what else is out there. Fake it till you make it, be strong and know that there are plenty of fish in the sea.