Do they have to because you say so? That's controlling and people in general don't like being controlled.
I am not even sure if want to send that letter or not and when. Now, even if I do, no one is forcing her to read it. If she doesn't want to, she won't even open the letter and throw it away. Easy as that. How's that controlling? Controlling would be taking a loudspeaker and giving her no other option than to listen to me.
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She may not care to hear, that's her problem.
Think about how you sound and appear to someone when you talk like that. It's not attractive. [/quote]
I'm done with thinking how I sound and appear to someone else. I won't live to please others.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
