Originally Posted By: shelbel


Can you say, "doomed"? That is going to get really old, really quick.



Hi shelbel - how are you today? Thanks for taking the time to look in on my sitch. You just reminded me of the TV show Dad's Army and Pte Frazer and I'm rolling around laughing!

Nice to meet another ER punchbag! I'm lucky - I have a very supportive dept and I know my colleagues in the vast majority are quietly disgusted with his behaviour. Some have been vocal to me about it, and some not, but he is definitely not enjoying any social interaction during his shifts these days. I had a couple of them talk to me about it today once again and say they just can't look him in the eye since they found out. I doubt he's noticed it, not sure he's capable of extending any kind of feelers into what lies beyond his own skin.



JacT - thanks, as ever, for your continued support. Sorry to hear your neighbour is also going through this torrid experience. How are you holding up yourself? I find it is food for the soul to help others though, I hope it's cheering you along inside. Good to hear she is in control and taking the initiative in her own sitch.

Re the dating, I have lined myself up with another date for my next Scottish trip - I'm actually starting to enjoy this getting out socialising and meeting new friends business - it's fun!

I'm eating well - still getting through the roast chuck from the weekend, in various guises.

Have you seen the forecast? Have to scrape car in the morning so thinking cycle is the right option as ever. Less windscreen to scrape laugh


Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.