Never once has he asked me how I am in all these meetings..never has he txtd and enquired abt the girls..what am I to think..thats perhaps he is happy with her.
My H didn't ask me how I was, didn't inquire about the kids...sometimes we didn't hear from him for months! There were many times he would not even reply to son's messages in email or voice mail...and our son was only 9 when he left!...
And I have to say that prior to all of this, he was the father that no matter how tired he was always read a bedtime story every single night, had favorite shows he watched with each kid, never went without a hug and kiss from them all on a daily basis...he was a very involved and wonderful father (he once again too) but when his MLC hit...he became someone that none of knew...there was not a speck of the old H to be found...I really thought there was no way possible for someone to return from where he was...it would be like crossing the Sahara with no water!...but miracles do happen!
