WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

The problem is that evidently your kids ARE noticing this. The fact that they haven't done anything alone with your kids doesn't matter. They are doing things together. Your kids see this.

By you taking your kids out of that environment, you are protecting them.

True. But my W has other male friends she does things with when the kids are present. If there is no inappropriate behavior, what could I argue that I'm protecting them from?

"If I lay down the law, I have to be able to enforce it."

Not true. It depends on what law you lay down. True you can't control what your W does, however you are the other parent and you have your rights as to what your kids are going to be exposed to.

That's just the thing. Say I tell W no exposure of kids to OM (this has already been done). She exposes them anyway. Now what? Restraining order? This was talked about before, but unless the kids are in danger, I think that would be a petty move at best, and hard to have done given no inappropriate behavior. Short of that, I don't know how such a boundary could be enforced.