"punished' is one way to look at it...

Can you possibly reframe it as a small price to pay to get out and away from a unhealthy R with a manipulative person.

It gets easier... count your blessings, not your losses.

Peace
Bridge

Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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