Hey Good, I agree with Coach--you are doing the right things.
And I am one that heard the ILY after I got the ILYNILY.
I got the ILYNILY on Feb 28, 2004. I will never forget that date.
But I don't know when I got the ILY--I think it took a year.
Last Wednesday my H said he was going to see a lawyer. (to divorce).
He has issues. He has had them a long, long time. He wants a mom--I am not his mother. I probably will refuse to EVER knit.lol.
I am in a MUCH better place now than before--I made changes for me, and I know how to GAL (I LOVE GAL!!! I am EXCITED about GAL!!) If my H wants to go--go. I am dressing sexy and trying to flirt, but in the end? Like coach said--it's blowing in the wind. Someone may appreciate it--maybe "someone" is H and maybe not.
You could win back your H and be right back here again later--you just don't know.