Thanks BH, I am just under 5ft 4" tall. I consider I have a healthy diet, no junk food ever. Crisps, coke,fast foods etc. I have the occasional pudding and danish pastry. I don't really have a sweet tooth and have 3-4 small glasses of red wine a week. So I guess they would have to go. I really only want my waist back ! and general tone up.
Oh I do like good bread and butter-will not eat spreads as they are full of additives, but even then 2 slices may 3 days a week.

As I said I have never dieted as I think that is a lifelong habit and have always prefered to eat healthily I do believe it is an age thing maybe more for women esp. those who have children.
Never done weights maybe that will be worth a go.
Thanks again.