"MR BOND......do you know braveheart in here cause you sound so much like him...i like braveheart you on the other hand sound like a freaking JERK!!!!!!!!!!"
Okay this I have to address. And this isn't to rysmom. I'll be the first one to say that I've felt nothing but compassion for rysmom. Heck I was one of the first people to post to her.
All I did was say in a more direct way what others have been thinking but have been too nice to say. My concern is for her son. Dealing with depression isn't a nice thing when it comes to yourself. It's even worse when you're a child dealing with it in your parent. He's not on the boards getting support. Where is his support?
rysmom has all the resources she needs to heal. And I'm not talking about from the boards. It's a matter of choice. Do you choose to heal or not?
The issue with her withholding the motorcycle and then blaming him wasting money for just saying that he would get another one, isn't a matter of money. It's a matter of control. You can't control another person. There also hasn't been hard evidence of OW, yet she stresses over her perception of there being one just based on a few spam messages he's getting. Not saying that she's right or wrong, but if she keeps playing these mind movies by herself, the problems will appear to be overwhelming.
For the record, I wish rysmom all the best. I truly do. It is up to her though as to how she will get to that "best" part.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
