WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

You sound weak, insecure, ineffectual, wussy like and definitely not the kind of man your wife would want to be with.

Again, you're making the mistake of thinking that whatever I ask, say, etc in this board, I'm going ot go and tell to my wife. Wrong. And at this point, who cares if I'm not the kind of man my wife wants to be with?

Why do you feel you have the right to share those feelings and your story with your wife if she has told you she doesn't want to be with you?

Let me see if I understand. I don't have the right to share my feelings but my wife has the right to behave like she has. Let's not disturb her highness. Interesting logic.

That's selfish

I'm selfish for expressing my feelings, and I suppose she's just following her heart, right? More interesting logic.

So if she doesn't want to care about your feelings anymore and not hear you cry & blab on about them, she has to because you say so?

So, if she doesn't want to care about my feelings anymore and not hear me blab me about them, I have to stop because she says so? Besides that, who said anything about crying?

You don't have the right to speak with her so that you can get closure, you can get that on your own and you should.

I have every right. To this day, I am her husband, she made promises she's accountable for. Whether she respects that or not, that's another case.

I respect your opinion and I appreciate your feedback.
I know you're just trying to get your point across here but some times I think you are unnecessarily aggressive.

There's no need for that. It's a process, some of us take longer to get this right, some of you apparently get it right all the time. It's been 6 weeks since I found out about the affair and two months since we're separated. I think I'm doing pretty damn good given the circumstances, to be honest. I'm sorry if you think otherwise.