The OM had an extensive history of manipulative behaviour - has indeed wrecked 2 previous marriages
Ummm...puke
Quote:
But then my complete opposite in others - the OM is obsessed with appearance and expense, has £5000 shoes etc. The WAW is usually found in soccer kit and scabby trainers, hates shopping and is very outdoorsy and sports mad. The OM wouldn't want to break a nail, let alone spend the evening at the in-laws farm building sheep pens, and a football match would be completely out of the question as it's far too common a pastime.....
Can you say, "doomed"? That is going to get really old, really quick.
I work in an ER here in the states, and I'm just trying to imagine one of our docs messing around with the wife of another. Gak. One of ours is going through a bit of a MLC (we think) and has been seeking female attention. It's almost humorous...but most of us are starting to lose respect for him. It is unprofessional, immature and just downright creepy.
I'm going to finish reading your sitch--I just wanted to tell you to keep taking the high road in all of this. I'm 99% positive that the people who know do not think very highly of him. Keep strong, stay out of their tawdry little game & you will be the hero when all is said and done.
(((hugs))) from across the pond.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
