Quote: is there ever a way to turn an ILYBINILWY into a ILY again?
Absolutely.
even in my case where my h seems to only see himself and nobody else?
your answer nearly brought me to tears. i thought it was impossible because i can't see how h will ever get passed the "financial ruin" he thinks i put him through.
am i doing the right things to make myself attractive again? i have left h to take care of himself. i can no longer 'mother' him. there is nobody to high five when the lakers win. there is nobody to "play" jeopardy with. he was expecting me to be the vindictive woman who is being faced with d. but i have not. i have stayed true to myself and kept my composure. i have not been greedy, vindictive, or conniving. i have no cried.
i want to look back and not have any regrets. i don't want to look back and say "geez, i shouldn't have done that or said this".
my support team is proud of how i have been so far.
i will be okay. regardless which way this goes.
i would appreciate it if you could check up on me every once i a while. i know this is just the beginning and it will take time. deep down, this good girl is scared and very hurt but is trying to put a brave face on.
