H in MLC help!!

[petals]

I often wonder what the percentage of DB'ing actually helps marriages. September is his deadline and i dont like th idea that he actually has a deadline---but you are right- thats his deadline- not mine. Im having a hard time doing things that are good for me- I did really good the first month he was gone, excerising and all- now the past month i have done nothing- i did paint my excercise room- its nice now. BUt i cant get motivated to do much. I went out with a friend to a movie and have plans with another for june- Its the day to day stuff- just getting through with all silence in the house- me not hving money to go shopping or anything that makes me feel good about myself- Im have a pity party today:-)