WAW and me in 11th hour!!!!

[Ken62]

Well since NC was broken last week and will be broken for the upcoming month while we determine the "furniture issue" I thought that I would take the opportunity to send my W an e-mail yesterday. Here is what I wrote:

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W,

Thank you for respecting my text message to you several weeks ago. I hope that it made sense to you and the fact that you didn't ask for any clarification gave me that impression. The “Goodbye” may have seemed a little dramatic but it was what I needed at the time.

During our last talk I told you that I needed space and these past several weeks have been wonderful for my healing process so thank you again. I have been telling you all along that I was going to leave you alone and I have finally been able to accomplish that. You know how to get a hold of me and you should feel free to do so if you ever need to.

Happy Mother’s Day and thank you for giving me three wonderful, amazing kids!

I hope you find what you are looking for,

Ken

In a message dated 5/5/2010 9:45:23 P.M. Mountain Daylight Time, W writes:
"I haven't contacted you until now out of respect for your last message to me in which you said Goodbye."

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And this is the response I got from her:

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Ken,

Thank you! I was remembering my first mothers day today and I am so grateful for our three beautiful children.

W

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I'm sure that I may have come across as weak and I am ready to take any 2x4 but it was something that I needed to clarify and I really wanted to reach out to her on Mother's Day because I don't think it was a great one for her and it was always one of her pet peeves with me in our R so I looked on it as kind of a 180 but I'm sure I'm just rationalizing.