he always said he didn't want to marry someone like his mother. then why is he taking his mom's side? why does it suddenly appear like he's leaving me because i'm not like his mom?
It sounds like you were "Mothering" him. Money, responsibilities, tasks, no need for him to take care of you. He was a child in the M. He probably said you were needy and clingy because he felt responsible for your feelings.
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it's my fault that his parents exaggerated their feelings about me. it's my fault that i'm forcing him to d-file me. it's my fault that the law says i'm entitled to a share that is not ideal to him. it's my fault that he's on this emotional rollercoaster. i'm just the world's most evil b*tch, am i? why would anyone want to be with me ever again? i'm just dirt.
These are all places to enforce boundaries. His problems are his problems don't let him heap his issues onto you.
You are doing the right things.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
