So he has told all his friends, family etc. Saturday there was a get together for friends and family at one of what use to be my best friends house, just so happens it is my H cousin too. And they have pushed me out of their lives which I am very sad about. They have a bad impression of me from what he has told them. Then he takes our boys there to play with the other kids and everyone there sees him without me and it just shows to them how serious he is about the divorce with me. This makes me sad and I don't know if we will ever end up getting back together. What should I do?