I'll be the WAW before long.

[FindingMyVoice]

Holy cow starving, I only had time to skim through your history (have to leave for a meeting shortly) but I'm very concerned for you! These posts really caught my eye in your old sitch-

He doesn't say hurtful things or pick fights ever, never has. He is just a brick wall. He ignores me. It's like I don't even exist and if I told him I was leaving, he would just say ok.

I can't tell if he's being passive aggressive here or if he's shut down. However, how do you feel about that... that you're trying to have a relationship with someone who could let you walk away so easily?

How do I create a situation where I keep up with my 180s and learn how to love him in his way, and at the same time make a boundary where I'm not being put in danger of losing my car, my apartment or my health?

Wow. That's quite a statement. I don't know about you, but I think I'd have a tough time loving someone in ANY way, who makes me feel like I could lose my car, my home and my health. I'm sorry to be blunt but I fear you're being taken advantage of. I hope I haven't misconstrued anything?