2x4 or not rysmom has asked you not to post to her.
If she doesn't start making some effort to address her problems people will stop wasting their time in attempting to advise her and put time in where it might actually help people who actually want it.
But again...I agree with you 100% just pointing out the difference between here...and other forums. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
