Thanks BD!!!I do like hearing your cousin's D story because it shows another example where the affair ends up not being the fantasy they imagined!!!

Am trying to figure out what I want to discuss with my therapist today. feel weak for letting WH blab my ear off and stay to feed S. I wanted him to though and he asked if it was ok! which makes me think he knows I have limits!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004