Most of my Buds just really didn't want to hear my bellyaching.
seems to be a recurring pattern in your life, good thing those are your words not mine, I just assumed as much after reading your responses in this thread.
So my question is do you want any advice on your situation? If not and you're collecting info on other people's experiences, what do you plan to do once your "collection" is complete?
Bummedout,
One thing these hard situations do is make us re-evaluate the 'category' our various friends fit into.