I am not a sunshine blower (ask around) but I do need to say that if Cori checked my cell phone for texts he often wouldn't find anything either...I have to erase them when they get to like 80 or something so I periodically erase for no other reason than I already read all the messages and I don't want it to get full
I understand that she cheated before and I understand that she should be open to things to make you feel more secure
I can tell you though that if I were her (and I don't have your history together so keep that in mind)
your questioning and desire to be a part of everypart of my life would make me mental and i bet I would start keeping things too...not because I was quilty but because I was tired of hearing your shite about it for forever...it's a lot easier to deal with for 3 hours than for a week
be sure that in wanted to keep your marriage you aren't killing your wife or yourself by suffication
