(((Mind)))The kids are the losers in all of this - which makes our job even bigger ---- to get ourselves through this, AND our kids. I know that when I had kids I di NOT consider a D down the road as an option - and my heart aches for my kids. When I watch how they seem to handle everything as if it is "no big deal," my first reaction is to think things must be running smoothly - but then I wonder what is buried inside them. I'm glad your S10 is showing emotion - something my kids have shown very little of, and it does make me worry.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
