Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

OK,
meeting adjourned.

Sat down with W and I let her talk first. She opens buy talking about kids school and that she feels they should go to school near her. Which led into she would want to have them
M-F.
Wasn't to happy about this so I said I would think about it.

Then the division of assets.
This went OK, we pretty much divided our investments/debts and I mentioned the inheritance money I recieved was not part f the division and she agreed, which shows me see did her research or LC. I then mention since her name is on the mortgage and I have been paying it for the past 8 months that she owed her half and she agreed to that.

Then R talk happened, she feel I was putting things in her face so I asked her what she meant by that.
She says I heard you were saying to people I was seeing someone. I told her that wasn't true, I NEVER said that, what I said was I would be surprised if you were seeing someone. Then proceeded to say I don't know who you go out with and it's none of my business.
Then she bring up the dating site saying I clicked on her friend. I did just to see her profile. Well since I was new I didn't realize members can see everyone who clicks on their profile andI told her the same thing.
I was doing go their to put this in her face, I went there to check things out.

Then stuff from before came up. She said she hasn't forgiven about the loneliness. Then she brings up that she feels like we had this convosation 5 time before.
She knows of all the changes I made and acknowledged them.
SHe also took blame for her part in the R. I thank her for admitting that.

Other stuff was said but it essentially came down to her saying that it takes two peole to want to make R work.
Then she saids I need to want to be with you. Then adds I DON"T want to be with you. I asked if she want a D and she says yes.
I ask do you think this is the best thing to do? Again YES.

So I say I just want you to be happy so if this is what you want then let's do it.

So all my efforts to save M and improve myself has not been successful. But now I know where I stand and that is by myself and enjoying my new improved outlook on life.

I will take all I've learned from this process to continue to better myself and grow as a person. I may not have saved my M but I saved myself.

Now I know some direction for my life.

thank you all for following and advising on my sitch.

I will contine to post as more legal stuff comes up.

GR8