Saturday... I gave H D papers on Saturday after sons' soccer game...They were copies because there was some missing information that I needed from him...I explained that it wasn't the hard copy yet and I had marked the pages where he needed to fill out...He took the box they were in and threw it into the back of his car...
After the game he took little man and headed to the mall while I headed out with my Mom to the grocery store...Not 2 hours later I get a text asking where I am...I told him and he said ok I will bring little man there - I am thinking WTF you haven't seen him in 2 weeks and you haven't even had him 2 hours however I refuse to allow my sons to be in the middle so I agreed. So he drops him off...
Texts me about 20 minutes later to apologize for not keeping him longer and tells me he was getting a severe headache...Being the nice person I am I told him if he would have let me know I would have brought some meds out to him when he dropped little man off...That text went into him sexually flirting with me which caught me off guard...I won't go into detail on that however it didn't last very long then all went silent...
Saturday Night.... My oldest spent the night with me and we stayed up late talking about everything...He is unhappy over there, wants to come home etc...On that subject I stuck to my guns...
I found out H and the OW have been house-hunting and found a 5 bedroom house w/pool to buy together...I found out that troll has been using my son as basically her therapist...
She keeps telling him how proud she is that her and my H found each other again after being apart for so long...When she spends the night at my H apartment, she sleeps on the couch and tells my son she refuses to sleep with H as long as we are still married and she wants us to divorce however doesn't want to influence his decision...
My H has our son doing his community service with her and when people come by and ask her who S is, she introduces him as her boyfriends' son which apparently is uncomfortable to my S...She asks S why she hasn't been introduced to little man yet, she has painted a picture of how H and her got back together with the blame of H contacting her first...
On and on until I thought my head would explode...It took everything I had not to get in the car, drive over to her place and beat her down...
Sunday... Started out well...I was still reeling from the information I had learned the night before...My oldest and I went to Church and H was coming to get S at 4...We hung out after Church til H got there...Once he got there I went out to the car to ask for the insurance cards for little man and I...
He gave me the cards as both boys walked down the driveway...He waited until S got in the car and little man was standing beside me to hand me back the D papers with the words he wasn't signing them...He didn't agree with the numbers (ie: child support/retirement)...I told him that was state regulated and there was nothing I could do about it...
There are several pages in there stating what he would pay based on his pay...Said it wasn't going to happen...I could have him served by the sheriff and he still wouldn't sign them...I stood there with a smile on my face as he yelled at me in front of the boys...
I made little man go inside and managed to tell H through a smile that he has had 15 months to take care of this and he has done nothing to move forward...
I was ready for my life to move forward without him and if he wanted to sit over there and save the whale (ie: fat troll) then so be it however I was no longer an option for him and I will proceed without him...I turned and walked away with that damn smile on my face, as he sat in his car still yelling at me...
My oldest sent me a text about 10 minutes later apologizing to me for his Dad being such an A-Hole...
I appreciated that however told him it wasn't his place and I was sorry him and his brother had to witness that...
Little man was in tears last night wanting to know why Daddy was being so mean to me & what he could do to "fix" Daddy so he would love us again...
I just rubbed his back til he went to sleep...
Not a great ending to what should have been a great day...
I hope the rest of you fantastic Mothers' had a wonderful day!!
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
