Guess I'm over-thinking things again. Need to let it go. Too many reminders for me in the May-June-July time-frame -- I get the rapid-fire sequence of Mother's Day/"Celibacy Day", First Date Anniversary, Bomb-Day/Father's Day and then the Wedding Anniversary. I need to find some new calendar event that's overpoweringly positive, to counteract this string of negative milestones.
I'll figure it out eventually. Thanks for bearing with me.