Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

FM, thanks for searching and finding the relevant stuff for me. How sweet are you? I read all those posts last night, I'm ready to drop the rope. I'm still waiting G's response on your suggestion.

She sent me a txt last night saying DD was in bed already but asked to send me a pic of her's so she attached DD's pic. I didn't respond. I stayed 100% dark yesterday (mother's day). It's not like me, I still care for her but a lot of those emotions are being replaced with anger lately. Thinking about how much could the marriage/me/us really mean to her for her to just pick up and move out just like that. She wants to be someone she can go on ahead. She's done this before with other guys, in fact, I didn't know until much later on that I was the OM when she was having 'problems' with her last boyfriend. I bet she just gets bored and feels unhappy and wants a fresh start every few years. She's been with me the longest by far. Oh well...I'm rambling again.

I had a decent weekend. Among other things I finally replaced the waterpump on my bimmer so it's working again, washed the truck, did some laundry and cleaning. Tuned the carbs on my motorcycle.

I made some chicken in the crock pot, pretty proud of myself and it was soooo easy. I thawed the chicken breast then cut it up into small pieces, peeled and cut up a potato, tossed them in the crock pot along with some salt, paprika, pepper and a can of cream of mushroom. About 5hrs later I was eating it over steamed rice and frozen spinach. It came out pretty darned good for my first try and only took maybe 15 mins in prep.

Oh DD and I had built a bird house out of left over 1x6 boards about a year ago. We hung it in the back patio but the birds (sparrows mostly never really used it. Well yesterday I see two blue jays going in and out of it.

Overall, I'm doing pretty good even when I'm by myself for long periods of time. Wed is court mediation date...not sure what to expect but I'm sure it'll be fine.