in all of this craziness, i am working on one thing... being true to myself! And that is exactly what you did with your reply. You are not H's mother and not supposed to make him feel better by scraping off his knees and yet, you can't destroy the good in you by coming off as an angry person either. Easier said than done!
But be true to yourself... it will make you feel better, great for the baby, and could be a positive thing that H will notice in you.
We can not change for them and become bitter people! i refuse to!
