I don't think it does any good to try and read a wayward spouse. Not that I take that advice or act on it. I have done, and I continue to try and read mine, but everytime I seem to be settling into a comfort zone, something happens to upset that balance.
Reading your thread is preparing me for it to continue for a while after W. leaves our home.
I guess we just have to keep our chins up and appreciate all that is good in our lives.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-