my wah thinks about himself a lot. he feels sorry for himself. had to hurt the one he loved in order to save himself. he only thought about the pain he was in. didn't think about the pain that he was causing me. didn't even think about how much his words hurt me prior to the d-bomb. often speaks before he thinks and therefore ends up saying things that really hurt. but he never thinks about how hurtful he is. he just thinks about how he can be heard.
yeah. men think a lot. mostly about themselves. sorry if i sound bitter. but i am. my h will never realize just how his actions have caused our marriage to breakdown. he's only pointed out how i failed to meet his needs.
oops .. the Good Girl has hijacked the thread a bit. call it arm waving. i need help from coach. my thread is in separated but i'm considering moving it to newcomers.
